Using the analogy of a movie for our lives can be useful. We play roles, others play roles and our interactions and the attendant effects of all of that is the fabric of our lives. But where do we take our cues from? Are you running around, trying to please a bunch of others, mostly only feeling partly successful at it? We do direct our lives, even if we are directing them to be at the behest of others. What about it? Do you want to be in the directors chair? In what ways are taking your cues from your environment that aren’t serving you well? The measure, of course, is how does it feel? If it feels right, it is; if it doesn’t, then it isn’t, at least for you right now. What one small change can you make right now that will be a move back towards taking back the directing of YOUR life?